Why a Whoman Values the Man She Fvcks More Than the One Who Pays Her Bills

A whoman values the man she fvcks more than the man who takes care of her bills. I’ll tell you why. Last year, I posted about women’s financial and emotional needs—how they tend to frontload their financial needs and make it seem like relationships today are all about money. But the truth is, their emotional need is much stronger than their financial need. The financial need just comes first because it provides security. Women crave all-around security from men, and financial security is always the first checkpoint.

That’s why a whoman will size up a man by how much he can provide before she even considers giving him a chance. Families also want that security, which is why they ask men “What do you do for a living?” when marriage comes up. But after financial security, emotional security usually becomes the ultimate need.

Many women sideline broke men and chase after rich men with the bags. Once their financial needs are taken care of, they begin to fight for emotional needs—attention, love, care, commitment—from a man. Sadly, many end up with men who don’t have the time to give them the affection they crave. Ironically, these are the same rich men they followed while shaming broke guys. Back then, love wasn’t the priority—it was money. But now, their need has shifted to emotional connection, and those rich men often can’t deliver.

Most rich men don’t get this. They think, “Just have money and women will chase you.” They get exactly what they earned—money chasers. When they can’t handle a woman’s emotions because they lack Game, women start looking outside for “Bad Boys” — men who know how to satisfy emotional needs with strong, solid Game.

At this point, whether the guy is broke or not doesn’t matter. She just wants the emotional rollercoaster she’s been craving. That’s why women sometimes take money from their rich boyfriends or husbands but spend it on a supposedly broke guy who knows how to fvck her head, mind, and emotions dirty. The naive rich man even risks fathering a child that isn’t his.

Here’s the key: women have a “dualistic dating strategy.” The man she fvcks (and emotionally connects with) is the one she genuinely desires, while the one who foots the bill is just a utility. Both are important.

You’ll even see this in the way women save contact names: Raymond Pizza, Abel Sub, John Aza-man, Ola House Rent, Vincent Foodstuff — these are the bill payers. Emmanuel Big Head? That’s the guy she loves. When a woman calls you “big head,” be sure she has feelings for you. Lol.

If you want success with the woman you desire, understand this: first, learn to satisfy her emotional needs before trying to meet her financial needs. Handling her emotions earns her loyalty and commitment—she’ll climb mountains for you. Handling her financial needs only earns debit alerts.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying don’t give her money or gifts. But women don’t fvck their fathers or guardians. If you’re always the problem solver, she sees you like a father figure or just a friend—a bill Chester.

Learn Game. Understand how to handle her emotions anytime, any day—and you win. This isn’t manipulation. It’s Game: social skills to handle this vąęgyna gender the way they’re meant to be handled.

Learn and apply.